{"id":251,"date":"2008-03-26T15:18:00","date_gmt":"2008-03-26T23:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.regoarrarr.com\/wordpress\/?p=251"},"modified":"2008-03-26T15:18:00","modified_gmt":"2008-03-26T23:18:00","slug":"i-will-not-give-you-satisfaction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.regoarrarr.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/i-will-not-give-you-satisfaction.html","title":{"rendered":"I will not GIVE you the satisfaction"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So a friend of ours was talking to Carolyn the other day.  She was telling us a story from a few years ago.  Apparently she got upset that she was the only one doing the dishes and that her husband never did them.  So one day she decided to go &#8220;on strike&#8221; (i.e. not wash the dishes).  As soon as I heard this part of the story I knew it was a bad idea.<\/p>\n<p>Sure enough, as expected, nobody did the dishes forever, they both got angry at each other and the problem was not solved.  This must be a guy thing, because as soon as I heard the story I told Carolyn &#8220;Man if you did that to me, I wouldn&#8217;t do the dishes because I would not give you the satisfaction&#8221; For me that kind of passive-aggressive behavior would make it not only about the dishes but just about the principle.<\/p>\n<p>Recently the cafeteria at work decided to (once again) nickel and dime us.  You are now charged 21 cents if you want to use a cup (like for water).  Also, if you take a to go container &#8211; ooh that&#8217;s 25 cents.  Errr wait.  I mean if you DON&#8217;T use a to-go container, you get a 25 cent discount.  But&#8230; conveniently, the price with discount is exactly the same as the old price.  Hmmmm&#8230; The other day I forgot my water cup upstairs but I instead opted to just have no beverage with my meal.   ARAMARK I WILL NOT GIVE YOU THE SATISFACTION!!!!!!<\/p>\n<p>And now, fast forward to a week or so ago.  I get a notice from National City about 2 overdraft charges.  This is not the first time this has happened to me.  I have money at National City, but in various accounts.  And so sometimes the money just is not in the right place at the right time.  I have fought these before with pretty good success (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatwallet.com\/forums\/hot-deals\/714188\/m10343011\/#m10343011\">just this once<\/a>).  As this dude <a href=\"http:\/\/www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com\/blog\/negotiating-out-of-bank-fees-part-2\">points out<\/a>, a bank&#8217;s cost to attract new customers can be up to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spss.com\/vertical_markets\/financial_services\/retention.htm\">$3500<\/a>.  So they have an incentive to bend over backwards to keep their existing customers.<\/p>\n<p>This time though it&#8217;s complete crap.  I transferred enough money on March 11th to cover 2 transactions I knew were coming in on the 12th.  They cleared, leaving me with a couple hundred bucks in the account.  But due to &#8220;holds&#8221; on the card of $671.80 that triggered 2 over draft notices.  Even though my account statement never shows me going negative.  And oddly enough none of the future transactions (from the 12th to the 17th) add up to $671.80, no matter what combination you try<\/p>\n<p>Added to that is that I have an alert set up that is supposed to email me any time that my balance goes below $250.  Never got an email, despite supposedly having a negative balance.<\/p>\n<p>But I WILL NOT GIVE NATIONAL CITY THE SATISFACTION<\/p>\n<p>Here is my saga:<\/p>\n<p>Attempt 1: Called up the customer service number on my overdraft notice.  Spoke to a guy who was pretty rude.  Got nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>Attempt 2: Following the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.slickdeals.net\/\">SlickDeals<\/a> mantra &#8211; I immediately hung up with him and called the same number and spoke to someone else.  She went on and on about those holds, and I countered by going on and on about where does this $671.80 come from &#8211; show me the transactions.  Finally she offered to refunded me $34 (the cost of one of those overdraft fees) &#8220;as a courtesy&#8221;.  I told her hey that was nice, but I want them both.  She wouldn&#8217;t do it.  I asked to speak to someone else.  She said there was nobody else.  I kept at it.  Finally she said she&#8217;d take my name and number and have her manager call me.<\/p>\n<p>Attempt 3: The next day I talked to the manager.  I again wanted to know where this $671.80 came from.  She said she couldn&#8217;t tell me.  I said I&#8217;d accept the $34 if and only if she could tell me where this money supposedly came from.  Again we go on and on.  Finally she tells me that I can get that information if I go into my branch.  I say fine.<\/p>\n<p>Attempt 4: I go in this afternoon to my local National City branch.  I go up to the desk and say &#8220;Yes I have 2 things here &#8211; first I&#8217;d like to deposit this check for $35,000&#8221; and then I have this overdraft charges that they told me you could take care of.  I figured if they saw what a high roller I was maybe I&#8217;d get better treatment.  Of course, they don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;m not REALLY a high roller (the check was the latest draw on the new house and has to be deposited so I can pay off the sub contractors) but hey :-).  She couldn&#8217;t do it and had me wait to talk to some other lady.<\/p>\n<p>Attempt 5: A few minutes later I got called back into the office of said lady.  Did the whole thing with flashing her my bling.  She again gave me the whole rigmarole about holds and all that.  I countered with talking about how much money I have (ha!) and how much business I do with them and how I don&#8217;t want to have to go to 5\/3 or PNC or wherever.  She says there is nothing she can do unless it&#8217;s a bank error.  I say well to me it IS a bank error.  I ask if there is anyone else that can do it.  She says her manager will be in tomorrow.  I leave it at that.  Seriously folks &#8211; what is the interest they&#8217;d get in even ONE day on $35K?  Not to mention that thanks to the wacked out Federal Reserve laws in the US, deposits of $35K mean that National City can make loans of I believe $350K!<\/p>\n<p>Attempt 6: After reading those finance blog posts I linked to above (I had them in my memory but had to search for them), I decided I&#8217;d use the tips he had in his post and looked up National City&#8217;s number off their website, which, oddly enough, was different than the number that I had called before (from my letter).  This time instead of asking about these fees that I got, I straight out said &#8220;I see these fees and I&#8217;d like them waived&#8221;.  I thought she was going to do it but in the end gave me the excuse that the only place that could do that was my &#8220;home&#8221; branch, which is the branch where I opened the account up 10 years ago (down in Clifton).  I suspect that is bogus but I will give them a call tomorrow and if that doesn&#8217;t work I will keep calling.  It just takes one person.<\/p>\n<p>NATIONAL CITY I WILL NOT GIVE YOU THE SATISFACTION.  I will seriously close down all my accounts over this $34.  Just ask UC who will get ZIPPO of my millions until they apologize for screwing me on health insurance in summer 2000.<\/p>\n<p>UPDATE &#8211; See <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regoarrarr.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/in-which-national-city-caves.html\">part 2<\/a> for the thrilling conclusion<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So a friend of ours was talking to Carolyn the other day. She was telling us a story from a few years ago. 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